The Ugly Phase - Misguided View about the BIG CHOP

So I was talking to this girl today and she told me that she wanted to go natural but  she was extremely terrified about going through the ugly phase between the time of the big chop and when her hair would grow to a "decent" length.... I was somewhat annoyed at the comment and I thought to myself, what about the phase is considered ugly, is it the length of the hair, the texture, what? People are of the impression that hiding under a head of hair makes you beautiful, if you ask me you either think you are beautiful or you don't. For too long people have had the warped idea that long hair is more attractive than short hair. Hair is what you make it, you wear your hair, your hair doesn't wear you.  I strongly believe that you have to  appreciate your hair for what it is or you just don't go natural. The impression I got from her is that she has the notion that short natural hair is unattractive and ugly and that is such a myth and far from the truth.  If however, you are ashamed of your hair texture there many products out there that can alter its feel and appearance without the use of chemicals. If you believe that your natural texture is ugly then that is an option. You also have to be creative with your look and find ways to accessorize. I think we need to realize the beauty that lies under all that chemical and be proud of it and wear it with confidence.

Moisturizing Protein Treatment Remix - Strength and Moisture in a bowl.

Ingredients

1 Small Avocado
1 Egg
2 Tbsp. Mayonnaise
2 Tbsp. Honey
2 Tbsp. Extra virgin Olive Oil
5 Drops Essential oil of Peppermint
5 Drops Essential oil of Rosemary

Blend ingredients and apply generously to hair.

Natural Hair Evangelism

Many times as I go along my merry way and as I meet and interact with people, I realized that there are so many ladies out there who are aspiring naturals. Many of them have reservations and fears and seem to doubt that they would ever be able to pull off the look or manage to care their
hair in its natural state. I am super excited about my natural hair journey and I am truly in love with the art of natural hair care and so almost instinctively I find myself engaging in what I would call "Natural Hair Evangelism". I simply tell them about the goodness of natural hair and what it has done for me....lol. Usually when you are passionate enough about something or if you
know of a good thing that you think will be of benefit to someone else, you are most certainly going to share...we do it everyday, telling our friends about those hot shoes that are on sale, that new gym that is the bomb, or just sharing how great the food is at a restaurant. The truth must be told..... Natural hair is so good, it makes you want to say.....Halleluyah!!

NATURAL CHAT WITH CANDIE..... Featuring Guest Paula Allen-Bobb, Actress/Model/Singer/First Lady

INTERVIEW WITH NATURAL NEWBIE PAULA ALLEN-BOBB

Introducing Paula Allen-Bobb...... Actress/Singer/Model/Writer/First Lady from Toronto, Canada. Paula has a unique sense of style and has always pushed the envelope where hairstyle and fashion are concerned. She prides herself in her ability to create her own individual trends and is always thinking outside the box where her appearance is concerned. She is known for her willingness to try various hairdos and is famous for her high-fashioned looks. She recently embarked on a natural hair journey and is already having lots of fun with it. I chatted with her a little and got a chance to get a peek at her purpose and plans as a naturalista.

1.What was the inspiration behind your decision to go natural?

Miss my natural hair, longing for change so I decided to go back to my roots.

2.Has the physical change triggered any emotional change and has it in any way affected your self-image?

I was always confident that I'm a beautiful woman, cutting it all off boosted this confidence

3. How has your friends and families responded to your new look?
My friends all love my look and admire my boldness to go all the way.
My hubby prefers long hair but says I look beautiful whatever I do to my hair

4. Being on set everyday and doing castings for varied roles, do you think that going natural will affect the number or types of roles that you are considered for?

I would hope not! If anything it should get me more work since I'm working with my ethnicity you want black here we go black, bold, beautiful,& loving it!

5. Have you established a daily regimen for your natural hair?

For now just water and hair oil.

6. Many people think that natural hair is unattractive and isn't very versatile....what is your take on it?

I must admit its as the term suggest " natural" hence it's a simpler look, you have to be a born diva to pull it off, and naturally beautiful. Mixed genes is also a plus. It's up to the individual to work the look. Its hard work, skill, confidence & favor that will help to pull off this look.

7. Do you have a natural hair celebrity that you admire?

Not really, I admire those who take care of their natural look and is not afraid to rock it!

8. What goals have you set for your hair for the next 12 months?

None, I'll take it as it comes, & maybe search around for natural products to soften the hair & make it manageable. I'm not stressn one day at a time!

9. Have you had any regrets so far about your decision to go natural and what do you love most about having natural hair?

No regrets. I look forward to see my hair grow back strong, healthy and long, I'm very happy about not having to use all this chemical in my hair anymore

10. How did you transition into becoming totally natural and what transitioning styles did you do?

I just gradually cut off perm ends until all was gone, then I went to the barbers & got a Mohawk

11. If you were to give words of encouragement to other women who are opposed to going natural, what would they be?

Risk, confidence, beauty, low-maintenance!

Natural Sistas taking over TV......

Am I the only one who notices that 90% the black women featured in TV ads are actually Natural Sistas. It caught my attention about two months ago and ever since I have been paying keen attention to the ads and I kid you not, they are dominated by natural hair divas.
I have no idea what the reasoning behind it is, or if it is even intentional but one thing I know is that stereotypes are being broken and a new mindset has evolved ......I'm loving it!!!

Cold weather.....Unkept hair.

Hi peeps.....so tell me why I allowed myself to fall victim to this cold weather that we are now experiencing in Florida. Everybody knows that I am a stickler for bedtime protective styling and not many things can get me to deviate from the routine. Last night however I didn't think twice about just bundling up and jumping under the covers. "Hair better than me" I thought to myself, and surprising to me, I had no qualms about it, neither did I think twice about the potentially damaging effects of sleeping with my hair all out and wild. Hey....for me, when it come down to cold weather, COMFORT FIRST!!!!!!!.

BANANA YOGURT HAIR MASK (For moisture and Sheen)

INGREDIENTS


2 Bananas
3 Spoons plain yogurt
3 tbsp. Honey
3 tbsp. Extra Virgin Olive Oil
5 Drops Lavender Oil.
5 Drops Peppermint Oil

COSH WASH